“The Dreaded Look”, Post #1
I went for my yearly exam at my OB/GYN this week. In addition to the usual humiliations that one normally endures during a GYN visit, I intended to have the doctor drain a so-called cyst in my right breast. A pap smear and a giant needle stuck in my boob all in one wonderful day. What could be more fun?
A little backstory:
At my previous visit with my doctor, I had pointed out a lump that I had found in my breast. He told me that it was Fibrocystic Breast Disease and that I had nothing to worry about. He said that if the cyst grew, that would mean that it was filling up with fluid, which he could easily drain in the office. Because of this benign diagnoses, I didn’t feel a sense of urgency as the lump grew in my breast between appointments. It wasn’t until I developed a constant, dry, hacking cough that I began to worry…or should I say, my husband began to worry.
My cough was so bad that I could barely talk on the telephone. I thought that my cough was allergy / asthma induced, so I made an appointment with my doctor a few months early to take care of the cyst in my breast and to get an inhaler for my cough.
During my exam, I reclined on the table and lifted my arm over my head as the doctor requested. I knew something was wrong by the look on his face. He led me to another room where he had an ultra-sound machine set up for pelvic exams. He then reached for a prescription pad and ordered me to get a mammogram at a nearby radiologist’s office. I was shocked by how easy it was for him to do that. If all he had to do was write my name at the top of a pre-printed prescription pad, why hadn’t he done that the year before?
You see, the year before, like many young women, I was not offered a mammogram, ultrasound, biopsy- nothing. This was a terrible mistake on the part of my doctor, but again, all too common in younger women.
Check out this article. It explains that misdiagnosis or delayed diagnosis of breast cancer is the most common medical malpractice suit. Now, before I get any hate mail: I am not condoning or condemning the suing of doctors. I love doctors. I am simply posting this for everyone’s best interest. I would hope any doctor reading this would download the article, read it, and pass it on to a colleague. It could save a life. Take all lumps seriously doctors; follow them closely or stick a needle in it! Please! (and thank you)
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Sept 11/07
Hello Karen and Michael,
Was googling trying to find the logo for Breast Cancer to make posters to decorate our golf carts for a Breast Cancer golf tournament coming up this friday and came upon your blog.Wow… unbeleivable.Quite a trip for you all ! But you know Karen, I don’t even know you…(curious…what sign are you ?) but after reading all this I feel like I do ! ! Life is about choices ! You either choose to fight…or choose to give up. You are definetly a fighter !
You go girl ! My thoughts will be with you this friday, and I will tell all my girlfriends to look up your blog.
Good Luck….stay strong ,
all my best ,
Carmen Saumure
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Fighting Breast Cancer: My Fight with Stage IV Cancer
The “Fighting Breast Cancer” Blog: Most blogs put the “most recent” entry at the top of the page. Fighting Breast Cancer blog starts with first doctor’s visit.
Thank you for sharing your struggles. Feel free to visit http://www.jungleroses.blogspot.com to hear another women’s story in her fight with stage 4 breast cancer.
I read your journal with great interest as I, too, had a similar journey. At every stop along the way (CT scans, bone scans, MRI’s, etc) everyone kept saying it was nothing.; After a bone marrow biopsy revealed breast cancer cells in the marrow it was finally diagnosed as stage 4 breast cancer. You search your past for clues and there are none. Was there something that I should have done or shouldn’t have done? I don’t think so. Everyone says fight hard, but how? I am taking the meds but they tell me this disease has a fatal outcome. I decided to keep on with my life as I once knew it and wait and see. Good luck to you. Katy Johnson
I think your journal is incredible. Every bit of information, every story shared is so important. During my breast cancer journey, I committed that when I survived, I would build a web library to help people organize all the information they find on the web. It’s great there is so much information – but it’s also overwhelming! So, my site is free, and I’ve created sections where you can save information on cancer. In the TAG box enter breastcancer and you’ll find websites. Also you can save sites there so others can more easily find them. Take a look. Thanks for helping me make my promise come true! Go to http://www.LinkShelves.com for more.
This is to karens husband. I hope your days are getting better with time. It must be so hard to lose the love of your life. Please when your ready could you upload her last journal entrys I would like to read some more of her words
Elesha